We finally did it. My wife and I finally got texting. I was an unbeliever for a long time. “I have a phone,” I thought. Why shouldn’t I just call? I might as well be communicating in Morse code, but I have seen the light.
One of the advantages that I have found with texting is that you can broach difficult subjects. It gets to the point and you can think about exactly what you want to say. So, you can be nice about an uncomfortable subject without worrying about your body language or tone of voice. These two features can really complicate things as what you’re really feeling and thinking will be obvious to all. Not that the conflict will be totally avoided, but what needs to be said can be put out there and if the person you’re conversing with wants things to be peaceful, hopefully they’ll follow your lead.
Of course this shouldn't be done with really serious situations that require discussion and deep understanding.
Of course this shouldn't be done with really serious situations that require discussion and deep understanding.
