We have CARE teams at my school. Basically, groups of committed teachers work to help kids make better decisions through small group activities. We play games and have discussions and it's interesting how much they know despite their outward behavior. The child can't stay out of "in school suspension" but she knows every answer to the "Resolving Conflicts with Friends" activity.
Kids need more than knowledge and answers so what is missing? They need motivation to do the right thing, but where does it come from? What I believe is missing in our children and teens is the same thing that is missing in our homes; God. If there is no greater good that you serve. If there is no one telling you that you should express good will toward men and for what purpose then why should you do anything that isn't selfish, based on pure emotion, and a desire to satisfy your own fleshly will?
If you're having trouble with your kids, a good place to start might be your local congregation. If they've got it together, they'll be able to help.
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