The new Progressive Insurance commercial scares me. The man, standing there with his wife as they "shop all day," carries a purse. They call it a European shoulder bag, but it's a purse. I will not be like that man. I enjoy going out with my wife. IT IS one of my favorite things to do, but every man must spend time exploring the side of him that asks, "can you do it? Are you a real man? Are you self-reliant?" Hiking trips, fishing, and rock climbing are all actvities that allow a man to answer these questions. If he can make it there, the goal is to make it at home as well.
Malita and I had some friends over the other night. During dinner, David and I were discussing our next hike under the leering eyes of two concerned wives. Well, to their credit, "underground river cave" isn't a phrase you'd call comforting. However, they understand our need for adventure. There's a wild side to every man and he must explore it, otherwise he'll go nuts. Like a caged lion, men can become discontent if their passion for danger and excitement isn't fed. Let's not be senseless however. When I am on one of my weekend hikes, I am constantly thinking about my family. I tell Malita before I leave, "I go in for me but I come out for you." Men need adventure and women need men who are adventurous. There are risks involved but the pay offs are immense. Just be sure to not get killed.
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